Just a heads up that my ex is creeping my blog and may resort to contacting my followers directly. I thought about privatizing my blog, but I will not succumb to these resentments.
I apologize in advance if she does contact you. Unfortunately, resentments are powerful things in some people’s lives. I wish there was a way for me to control this behavior. I have contacted WordPress about this issue.
You do not deserve to be harassed by anyone in this community. By the same token, I will not allow anyone to strong arm me from my purpose.
According to WordPress I have 360 “followers.” Truly? I wish! I average about 15-25 “likes” per post. Where the heck are the other 340? Lol. But, not my actual point. This got me thinking about who I follow, and why.
What I have learned is that I have been ignoring some folks that have been showing me consistent and solid support, and I have been “following” and investing serious time and effort in some folks for quite some time that have shown me scant support.
Well, today I cleared house and started following you folks I have missed. I guess that’s just the ebb and flow of blogging. Because I don’t believe in “following” everyone, I have been devoted to pretty much the same 30 or so poets since I joined here in mid-October.
That number has pretty much allowed me–very nearly most of the time–to post quality comments on posts. For me, following any more would not allow me to give consistent, quality feedback.
What I am concerned about is making sure that the folks I am supporting are the folks who are regularly and consistently supporting me. That’s reciprocity! Makes sense right? Or at least I hope it does!
Before I decided to launch some folks, I got very anal about this and counted each person who has “liked” each of my last 25 poems. I discovered the same core group of bloggers, so that’s who I am following today.
So, thank you very much to you who have shown me such love and support. And thank you for those of you who occasionally stop in and “like” or comment, I am most grateful. I understand everyone can’t visit everyday and then I’d have to follow 360 followers, lol. I just can’t follow everyone and be fair to your work.
At least you all know now why I am or am not following you. And, to the new folks I am now following, I promise to show you the same love and support you have shown me. Sorry I’m a bit late to the party.